My parents purchased a home for my sister, then slid the mortgage documents my way. “You’ve got the savings. Time to step up for family,” they said. I refused. They hit me with a $350k lawsuit. Then the judge asked me one question… My response left everyone speechless …
You don’t have a husband or children, he said flatly. I’m not doing this, I said. This isn’t help.
This is manipulation. I left the folder on the table unopened and I walked out before I could start screaming. I thought they’d cool down.
I told myself they’d realize how absurd it all was that asking your unmarried daughter to pay for her sister’s house wasn’t something most people would defend. I was wrong. The first call came that Saturday from my cousin Tiffany, someone I hadn’t seen since grandpa’s funeral.
April told me what happened, she said. No hello, no pause. I can’t believe you’re being so cold.
Excuse me? I asked. Rachel’s a single mom, Catherine. Those boys are your nephews.
You’re sitting on all that money and won’t help. I gripped the counter. Tiffany, you don’t know the full story.
I know enough. Family helps family. Before I could respond, she added, Rachel would do the same for you.
I almost laughed, bitter involuntary. No, she wouldn’t, I said quietly. You’re unbelievable, she snapped and hung up.
The texts started after that, then voicemails. People I barely knew, Uncle Don, Jessica, a cousin I hadn’t spoken to in years, piling on. The messages blurred together.
You’re selfish. They raised you. She has children.
You don’t. What struck me most wasn’t the anger. It was the certainty.
As if they knew beyond doubt that I was wrong. That because I hadn’t built a family of my own, I was now fair game to fund someone else’s. The worst came from Aunt Pat, my mom’s older sister.
She called during dinner. I just want to talk some sense into you, she said in that sugary tone she’d perfected. You’re not getting younger, Catherine.
Who knows if you’ll ever have children. At least this way you’d be contributing to your family’s future. So because I’m single, I said I owe Rachel a house.
Don’t be dramatic. They need help. And you will.
You’re in a position to give it. That night, I blocked every number that had chimed in. One by one.
If they couldn’t respect my boundaries, they didn’t deserve my peace. And deep down, I knew something I hadn’t wanted to admit. This wasn’t about the house.
It never was. Two months passed. I didn’t hear from my parents, Rachel, or anyone else I hadn’t already blocked.
I poured myself into work. Walked in the mornings. Let silence become something close to peace.
Then the envelope arrived. It came on a Thursday, thick official looking. I thought it was insurance paperwork at first…