At 25, I built my own house, and at the housewarming, my mother pulled me aside
«How dare you? I gave birth to you, raised you, made you a person.» «I made myself a person, with my own labor, my own hands, without your help.» His mother stood a bit longer, clearly thinking how best to influence her son.
Then she turned sharply and headed out. «You’ll see?» «You’ll come to me yet!» she shouted on the way. «Everyone needs a mother, everyone!» David watched her go and returned to work.
But his mood was ruined. His mother’s visit reminded him of what he’d tried to escape. He worked late into the night, trying to drown the flooding memories in work.
After that incident, David built even more intensely. As if rushing to finish the house before the past caught up completely. He hired extra workers, extended shifts, didn’t leave the site himself.
In August, they started the roof. David personally oversaw every element of the rafter system. The roof had to be not just beautiful but reliable.
He chose dark green metal tiles that blended with the surrounding woods. Victor the roofer worked with special care. «The roof is the face of the house,» he’d say.
«We’ll make it nice so neighbors envy.» David smiled. He wasn’t building for neighbors, but for himself, for that kid once kicked out, for that youth who slept at the station and dreamed of a roof over his head.
By fall, the house was ready for finishing. David stood in the middle of the future living room and couldn’t believe it was all his. High ceilings, big windows, hardwood floors, a fireplace he built himself from natural stone.
The staircase to the second floor, made by Alex, a real work of art. Interior finishing was done by other specialists. David chose warm, cozy tones for the walls: beige, light brown, cream.
No loud colors, no showiness. Everything solid, tasteful, for the long haul. He bought furniture slowly, carefully selecting each piece.
A massive oak table for the living room, soft chairs by the fireplace, bookshelves covering the whole wall. In the bedroom—a bed of natural wood, wardrobe, vanity table. All sturdy, quality, to last decades.
He paid special attention to the kitchen. Spacious, bright, with a big window to the garden. Modern appliances, comfortable furniture, a large table for family gatherings.
What family? David didn’t know yet, but believed someday he’d have one. It was in the kitchen that he met his future wife. Olivia worked as a designer in the salon where he bought curtains.
A pretty girl with kind eyes and a smile that immediately drew you in. «Building a house?» she asked when he told her the window sizes. «Yes, almost done.»
«Probably big?» «Big,» David smiled. «Too big for one person.» Olivia laughed.
«So not built for one.» They got talking. Turns out Olivia also dreamed of her own house, family, kids.
She didn’t ask extra questions, wasn’t interested in his income, didn’t try to impress with fancy clothes; she was just herself, sincere, open, kind. «Maybe show me the house?» she asked as he was leaving. «I’d like to see the result.»
David invited her the next weekend. Olivia came in simple clothes, no makeup, but looked great. She walked through the house, admired every detail, asked about construction.
«All by hand?» she asked, touching the brickwork. «A lot myself; wanted the house built with soul.» «You can feel it,» Olivia said.
«The house is alive, warm. You can see it was built with love.» David realized he was in love…
Not with beauty, not sexuality, but with this girl’s soul, her ability to understand what mattered most to him. They started dating. Olivia often came over, helped with final touches, chose garden flowers.
David told her about his family, how he’d been kicked out. Olivia listened without judging or pitying, just accepting his story as part of him. «Want me to be your family?» she asked one day by the fireplace.
David hugged her tighter. «I do.» By winter, the house was fully ready.
David moved in January, in the deepest cold. For the first time, he had his own real home, not a room in a shared house, not a warehouse shed, but his own house, built by his hands. The first night, he spent in the living room by the fireplace.
Lay on the couch, watched the fire, thought about how long he’d come to this moment. Twelve years since the day he was kicked out. Twelve years of struggle, deprivation, hard work.
But he’d reached his goal. Morning, a phone call woke him. It was his mother.
«Son, I heard you built a house,» she said in a honeyed voice. «Congratulations! Well done!» David was silent, not knowing what to say. «Maybe we’ll visit? See what you’ve got.
I’m so proud.» «Proud?» David couldn’t hold back. «Of what?» «Of my son.
Grown into a good specialist, built a house. All this not thanks to you, but in spite of.» Oh come on, son? Forget the past.
We’re family.» David realized his mother was up to something again. She wouldn’t call just like that.
But he didn’t pry yet. Just said he’d think about it and hung up. In spring, he proposed to Olivia.
The wedding was modest, only closest people. David didn’t invite his mother or Ethan. He wanted the day bright, without past shadows.
Olivia moved in, and the house came alive. Voices, laughter, clinking dishes in the kitchen. David realized he’d built not just a house, but a foundation for a new life, a new family.
But the past wouldn’t let go. Emily Johnson called more often, more insistently. She knew her son was married, had a successful business, was well-off, and that knowledge made her even pushier.
«Son, Ethan and I want to come for housewarming,» she said in another call. «I’m your mother; I should bless the house.» Housewarming was six months ago.
«So have another one, for family.» David hesitated long. Part of his soul, the child part that always dreamed of maternal love, wanted to believe she’d really changed, come to make peace, not take.
«Okay,» he said finally. «Come on the weekend.» Olivia supported his decision.
«Maybe it’s time to forgive,» she said. «Life’s short, and family is family.» David nodded, but deep down sensed he’d regret agreeing.
He knew his mother better than he’d like, and that knowledge told him the visit would end not in peace, but new conflict. But he decided to give her a chance, a last chance to prove she could be a mother, not just the one who bore him. David woke Saturday with a heavy foreboding.
Olivia was up, the kitchen smelled of fresh baking; she was making apple pie. His wife tried to make the meeting warm, homey, though she knew her husband was worried. «Maybe it’ll work out?» she said when David came down for breakfast.
«Time heals; people change.» David hugged her, breathing in her hair’s scent. Olivia was his quiet harbor, his support, but even her presence couldn’t fully ease the anxiety.
«We’ll see,» he said, trying to sound calm. By noon, the house was ready for guests. Olivia set the table in the living room, put out flowers, turned on soft music.
The fireplace crackled, creating a cozy atmosphere. David walked the rooms, checking everything, realizing he was acting like a student before an exam. Emily Johnson arrived by taxi with Ethan…