At 25, I built my own house, and at the housewarming, my mother pulled me aside
She probably cooked something tasty, set the table, maybe even remembered her older son. But the phone stayed silent. Seven years passed like one day.
David finished vocational school, became a good specialist, got a foreman position. Now he led a crew, planned jobs, dealt with clients. The salary was decent, and he could finally afford normal food and clothes.
But most importantly, he saved enough for his dream. David wanted to build a house, not buy one ready-made, but build it with his own hands. Every brick, every beam should carry a piece of his soul; it was his way to prove to himself he was worth something.
And that’s when, with life getting better, when he’d become successful and independent, his mother showed up. Emily Johnson called him at work and spoke in such a sweet voice, as if they’d parted on the best terms yesterday. «Son, how are you? How’s your health? I’ve missed you so much!» David was silent, not knowing what to say.
His mother’s voice stirred conflicting feelings: a child’s longing for maternal love and an adult’s bitterness from realizing that love was only needed now that he’d succeeded. «Maybe we can meet? Talk?» she continued. «Why?» he asked.
«Why? I’m your mother! I want to know how you live, what you do!» David hung up without answering, but the calls kept coming. Emily Johnson was persistent; she sensed her older son could be useful to her. And she was right.
After talking to his mother, David sat in his office a long time, staring at blueprints for the future house. His hands shook when he picked up a pencil. Emily Johnson’s voice had awakened everything he’d tried to forget for seven years.
But now he wasn’t that scared kid with a suitcase. Now he was a man building his own life. He’d planned the house three years ago, when he got promoted to foreman.
That’s when he bought a plot in the suburbs of Chicago, small but in a quiet spot, near the woods. Neighbors were decent folks, non-drinkers. David often went there on weekends, sat on a stump in the empty lot, and imagined his house standing there.
He designed it himself, evenings after work. A two-story house with an attic, spacious kitchen, living room with fireplace, three bedrooms, terrace overlooking the woods where he could sit summer evenings with a book. Every room was thought out to the smallest detail.
David knew where every chair, every shelf would go. «Why such a big house?» colleagues asked. «You’re a bachelor.»
David just smiled. He didn’t explain that this house wasn’t just shelter. It was his answer to everyone who thought him worthless: to his mother who kicked him out, to Ethan who laughed at his humiliation, to all who thought he’d amount to nothing.
Construction started in spring. David took vacation and worked on the site from morning to evening. First, he laid the foundation, strong and solid, to last centuries.
He mixed every bag of cement by hand, laid every stone himself. It was meditation, therapy for his damaged soul. He hired a trusted crew.
Nick, a mason with 20 years experience, could lay bricks with perfectly even seams. Victor, a roofer who guaranteed the roof wouldn’t leak for 30 years. Alex, a carpenter who made real art from wood.
They worked as one team. David didn’t just supervise; he joined every process. He mixed mortar, carried bricks, painted walls.
The guys were surprised at first; not every foreman dirties his hands. But then they understood this house meant more to David than just pay. «Building for yourself is different,» Nick said, carefully laying a brick.
«You can see you’re doing it with soul.» David worked like a man possessed. He woke at 5 AM, arrived at the site with the first rays of sun, left only when it got completely dark.
His hands got calluses, his back hurt, but he didn’t stop. Every brick, every board was soaked in his pain and anger. Evenings, when the workers left, David stayed alone.
He walked through the unfinished house, imagining living there. Here by the fireplace, he’d put a chair and read. Here in this kitchen, he’d cook for… for whom? He didn’t know yet.
But he believed someday he’d meet a woman who’d understand him, love him not for money or status, but for who he was. In June, when the walls were up to the second floor, Emily Johnson showed up unannounced at the site. David was lifting a beam for the floor when he heard the familiar voice.
«Son, where are you? I’ve come to see you.» He turned and saw his mother. Seven years hadn’t changed her for the better…
Her hair had grayed, her face wrinkled, her figure filled out, but her voice was the same: demanding, sure of her rightness. «Mom?» David set down the beam and wiped his hands on his work clothes. «There you are.»
Emily Johnson looked around the construction with undisguised surprise. «Couldn’t find you?»—asked your neighbors. «They say you come here every day.»
David stood, not knowing what to say. His mother seemed a stranger, as if he was seeing her for the first time. Seven years without contact was an era.
«What are you building?» she asked, stepping onto the site. «A house.» «For whom?» «For myself.»
Emily Johnson walked around the site, touched the walls, peered into window openings. David saw her calculating material costs, assessing the scale. «Expensive, probably?» she asked finally.
«Not cheap.» «Where’d the money come from? A foreman’s salary wouldn’t cover this.» David smirked.
Even after seven years, his mother was the same: straightforward, tactless, thinking she had a right to know everything about his life. «Saved for seven years,» he said. «Every penny.
Remember how I ate ramen? Here’s the result.» Emily Johnson winced. She clearly hadn’t expected her son to remind her of the past.
«Why dwell on the old?» she said conciliatorily. «We’re family. I’ve come to make peace.»
«Make peace?» David couldn’t believe the audacity. «After seven years of silence?» «You got offended. And you’d come yourself.
But you didn’t, so I had to search.» David looked at his mother and realized she truly believed her words.
In her world, he was at fault for not keeping in touch with the family. «You know, son,» Emily Johnson continued, «I need your help. Ethan doesn’t want to work, just spends money.
And I’m old, retiring soon. Maybe you can help financially? I raised you, fed you.» There it was.
David understood why his mother had sought him out. Not for reconciliation. Not because she missed him.
She needed money. That’s when she remembered her older son. «No,» he said shortly.
«How no? I’m your mother. My mother seven years ago threw me out on the street with a suitcase. And who are you?» Emily Johnson flared up…